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Jim Yates

veteranOct 26th, 1940 - Jun 4th, 2021

Memorial Gathering: 1:30 p.m. Saturday, June 19, 2021, at the Flora Depot 2nd Floor Community Room, 223 W. Railroad St., Flora, IL

Please note that the memorial gathering will be held a week from this coming Saturday. 

 

   Longtime Capistrano Beach resident and Saddleback College Professor Emeritus, James D. Yates, passed away from lung cancer at age 80.  Jim would want it known that he never smoked, but life is full of vagaries.  Jim was born in Boston, Mass. On Oct. 26, 1940 to James Allen Yates and Victoria Pulitano Yates. His father and uncle Orin perished on May 7, 1942 when the USS Sims was sunk in the Battle of the Coral Sea.  Two months later, Jim's mother gave birth to Jim's brother, Orin Guy Yates.  Eleven months later Jim's mother took Jim and Orin to his paternal grandparents' farm just outside Rinard, Illinois.  Jim was adopted by his grandparents Luther Guy and Mamie Yates and raised on their farm with a bevy of colorful aunts, uncles and cousins whose exploits Jim has recounted to friends far and wide.  Jim attended Flora Township High School and graduated in the class of 1958.  He attended Eastern Illinois University where he earned a Bachelors of Science in Education and later earned an M.B.A. from Pepperdine University in Los Angeles, California.   From 1962 - 1968 Jim served in the US Army (6 months) and US Army Reserves (5.5 years).  Jim was married in the late 1960s and divorced 10 years later. Jim taught at Garfield High School in Los Angeles and later joined the faculty at Santa Ana College in Orange County  In 1980 he joined the faculty of Saddleback College in Mission Viejo, California and retired 22 years later in 2002.
   As a young adult, Jim sought out the mother that had left him at 2 1/2 years of age.  When he found her, he discovered that he had a half-sister.  Jim's brother, Orin, who Jim unabashedly loved more than life itself, tragically passed at age 56 on May 12, 1999.  This created a terrible hole in Jim's life, but he nevertheless filled it by undertaking many adventures and making new friends during many trips to the Australian Outback and splitting his home between Capistrano Beach and Kona, Hawaii. In Kona, he met Liddy Slejmar, whose friendship and devotion he treasured until the day he passed. Jim is survived by five nieces and nephews, several cousins, and many dear friends.  There is no more fitting eulogy to Jim than W.B. Yeats line “Think where man’s glory most begins and ends, and say my glory was I had such friends.”
   Jim did not desire a traditional funeral or mortuary service.  Instead, he requested that his remains be cremated and the ashes divided into two halves.  One half to be scattered at the same place his brother's ashes were scattered in Port Angeles, Washington and the other half interred at the cemetery where his father and uncle are memorialized outside of Flora, Illinois.  His former sister-in-law, Dana and Orin's daughters, Geina and Carlee will fulfill Jim's wishes in Port Angeles, Washington.  His cousin, Margaret, will coordinate the service in Illinois, and his friends, Alex & Phil will host an "Irish Wake" celebration of life in Orange County.  Details will be sent to the recipients of Jim's somewhat notorious email distribution lists.
   The memorial gathering in Illinois will be held beginning at 1:30 p.m. Saturday, June 19, 2021, at the Flora Depot 2nd Floor Community Room, 223 W. Railroad St., Flora, IL.  For those who desire to make a memorial donation, the preferred form of remembrance will benefit Bunker Cemetery.  Please make checks payable to “Keith Township Cemetery Fund (Jim Yates)” and mail them to: 2140 County Highway 20, Rinard, IL 62878-1006.

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Condolences

Debbie King Casell

June 10th

What a beautifully written obituary. Though Jim's passing is sad, one can't help but rejoicing that he is pain free and now reunited with Orin. What a grand welcome and reunion that had to be with brothers together again! My thoughts and prayers to the family.

Paul & Jo Ann Rose

June 11th

So sorry to hear. We graduated with Jim and always enjoyed his visits when he returned to Flora thru the years.

Becky Stanford Stocke

June 13th

Jim was a dear friend and will certainly be missed. I loved his visits to Flora —- his phone calls—-his emails. He always shared some good stories . My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with his family and many friends.

julie colvis

June 14th

Many many memories of Jim and Dad in Olney and at Hilton Head. Jim was one of a kind...will miss his emails and phone calls and visits here to Paducah where he always treated us to Outback.

 

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